From the time that Pip stands forlornly gazing at the
tombstones in the graveyard on the marshes in Chapter I of Great
Expectations, he searches for a father. Joe Gargery, his step-father does
not fill the role because he is too subservient to his shrewish wife, Mrs. Joe who
dominates the household. At the meal in Chapter II, for instance, Pip and Joe seem more
like brothers than anything else. For, Joe tries to warn Pip about bolting his food
lest Mrs. Joe notice, but when she does Joe, like a child, "looks at her in a helpless
way; then took a helpless bite and looked at me again." However, Joe, who calls Pip
"Old Chap," is very loving with Pip who "looks up to Joe in [his]
heart."
In Chapter XXVII of Stage Two, Joe has Biddy write
to Pip that he is coming to London in order to visit. But Pip is
dismayed,
Not
with pleasure, though I was bound to him by so many ties; no; with considerable
disturbance, some mortification, and a keen sense of incongruity. If I could have kept
him away by paying money, I certainly would have paid money....I had little objection to
his being seen by Herbert or his father, for both of whom I had a respect; but I had the
sharpest sensitiveness as to his being seen by Drummle, whom I held in contempt. So,
throughout life, our worst weaknesses and meannesses are usually committed for the sake
of the people whom we most
despise.
Once he arrives, Joe
is awkward and speaks to Pip formally, addressing him as "sir" since he perceives Pip
now as his social better. Before he leaves, he tells Pip that he will not come to London
again as he does not belong out of the forge:
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"Diwisions among such must come, and must be met
as they come. If there's been any fault at all today, it's mine. You and me is not two
figures to be together in alone; nor yet anywheres else but what is private, and
beknown, and understood among
friends.
After he departs,
Pip is ashamed of himself and realizes that "there was a simple dignity in him." Pip
tries to run after Joe, but the man is gone.
In the Third
Stage of Dicken's great novel, Pip has sunken into debt and after having saved Miss
Havisham from the fire and essayed to help Magwitch escape, Pip falls gravely ill.
Finally, as he regains more consciousness, he realizes that Joe has come to care for
him:
At last,
one day, I took courage, and said, “Is it
Joe?”
And the dear old home-voice answered, “Which it air,
old chap.”
“O Joe, you break my heart! Look angry at me,
Joe. Strike me, Joe. Tell me of my ingratitude. Don't be so good to
me!”
For, Joe had actually laid his head down on the pillow
at my side, and put his arm round my neck, in his joy that I knew
him.
Remorseful for all the
times that he has not visited the forge and his snobbishness regarding Joe since he has
become a gentleman, Pip utters a prayer, "O God, bless this gentle Christian man!" as he
understands what a dear, loving friend Joe has always been to him. Now that Mrs. Joe is
dead, Joe is his own man, and Pip can know a father in him. Like the prodigal son, Pip
returns to the forge when he is well and together he and Joe have "what
larks!"