The passive- aggressive personality is intricate, and
extends into many different domains. Shame can be a part of this personality. Perhaps,
the shame, or embarassment, at not being successful at something comes out in a passive-
aggressive form. Rather than appropriating the supposed weakness and seeking to make a
productive end out of it, the shame of failure can be a motivating factor behind the
passive- aggressive personality. This personality type is one that features a pattern
of behavior whereby "indirect resistance to others" is exhibited through "covert"
means. The "resistance" element might be sparked by a perceived insufficiency or
failure. The result of this is to adopt a persona where approaches are taken that
reflect an inability to find a balance between "dependence and independence." It is
here where shame might be able to find a home, and is reflected through a personal that
is "critical of others" perhaps to conceal one's own self- critical nature. It is
difficult to see if shame is a motivating factor behind passive aggressiveness or if
shame is a result of passive aggressiveness. The end result is that the behavior of
passive aggressiveness can contain some element of shame within its
configuration.
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