In Shakespeare's The Taming of the
Shrew, Act Three, scene two, when all have gathered at the church, Petruchio
is not to be found. She tells her father that her assumptions were correct: he is a
worthless man who has asked for her hand in marriage and now will embarrass her by not
showing up. She leaves the room in tears.
readability="34">I told you, I, he was a frantic
fool,Hiding his bitter jests in blunt
behavior:And, to be noted for a merry
man,He'll woo a thousand, 'point the day of
marriage,Make feasts, invite friends, and proclaim the
banns;Yet never means to wed where he hath
woo'd.Now must the world point at poor
Katherine,And say, ‘Lo, there is mad Petruchio's
wife,If it would please him come and marry her!’
(12-20)After Kate leaves,
ultimately Petruchio arrives, wearing clothing that is old, stockings that do not match,
and he refuses to change. He will marry on his terms, and so it seems he will live his
life with his wife on his terms as
well.Petruchio goes into the church and marries Kate,
ending the ceremony with a loud smack of a kiss that echoes through the building. When
everyone prepares to depart for the wedding feast, Petruchio says that he must leave.
Kate asks him to stay, saying he will do so if he loves her. He asks his wife not to get
angry, but says nothing else. This is when Kate insists to her father that her husband
will stay because she wants it.readability="8">KAT:
I
will be angry: what hast thou to do?Father, be quiet; he
shall stay my leisure.
(216-217)Then she comments
that a woman is made a fool by a man if she exhibits no spirit, believing she will have
her own way. She is already making it clear that she does not intend to follow her
husband's directions.readability="8">I see a woman may be made a
fool,If she had not a spirit to resist.
(220-221)However, Petruchio
will not be controlled by his wife and states that she belongs now to him and it is time
for them to go, and he will fight anyone who tries to stop
him.So as she always has done, Kate
expects to get her own way, and to control her husband, making him
do what she wants. She is in for a rude awakening, for Petruchio is
not likely to do anything that he chooses not to do. He decides
that it is time to go, and they leave at his insistence, not on
her wish.